At the risk of sounding like a total dumbass, I have to ask, Do I need to forward my port if I dont have a router? Also, how the hell do I know if I have a router or not? As far as I know I dont, but as I am willing to share with you guys, I dont know nuffin! I am so bummed about this unconnectable status, I am seeding my downloads and they are being shared, I promise I even considering buying that program that auto forwards your port but the very first thing it wants to know is what router I have. PS now I have a headache. Any advice in simpleton terms would be deeply appreciated. Thanks in advance.