Yeah well.. usually i think the same. If anyone rejects me, and doesn't bother finding me later, then i wont bother finding them.. I'll let them boil in their own soup.

It's just that ever since i spoke to a few mothers that had abandon their children at an early age, (talking good mothers here, in principle) for different reasons, and my own father in length... besides having made the decision to not have children, and therefor robbing my unborn children from their life's.. and how i would explain that to them, if i could.. and dared... (think about that one before you comment) I came to realize that this subject isn't as black and white as it looks to be at first glance.

Anyhow, i believe this, (should you go find a father or mother that abandoned you) is a very personal decision, and no one can make it for you, they can only tell you what they think, so you have a view on the matter from sides you might not have though of yet...All you need to do is ask.. for many will not volunteer that info on an open forum.